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A thought provoking story ....


Once a king called upon all of his wise men and asked them, " Is there a mantra or suggestion which works in every situation, in every circumstances, in every place and in every time. In every joy, every
sorrow, every defeat and every victory? One answer for all questions? Something which can help me when none of you is available to advise me? Tell me is there any mantra?"

All the wise men were puzzled by the King's question. They thought and thought. After a lengthy discussion, an old man suggested something which appealed to all of them. They went to the king and
gave him something written on paper, with a condition that the king was not to see it out of curiosity. Only in extreme danger, when the King finds himself alone and there seems to be no way, only then he can see it. The King put the papers under his diamond ring.

Some time later, the neighbours attacked the Kingdom. King and his army fought bravely but lost the battle. The King had to flee on his horse. The enemies were following him. getting closer and closer. Suddenly the King found himself standing at the end of the road - that road was not going anywhere. Underneath there was a rocky valley thousand feet deep. If he jumped into it, he would be finished...and he could not return because it was a small road...the sound of enemy's horses was approaching fast. The King became restless. There seemed to be no way.

Then suddenly he saw the Diamond in his ring shining in the sun, and he remembered the message hidden in the ring. He opened the diamond and read the message. The message was - "THIS TOO SHALL PASS"

The King read it. Again read it. Suddenly something struck him- Yes! This too will pass. Only a few days ago, I was enjoying my kingdom. I was the mightiest of all the Kings. Yet today, the Kingdom
and all his pleasure have gone. I am here trying to escape from enemies. Like those days of luxuries have gone, this day of danger too will pass. Calmness came on his face. He kept standing there. The place where he was standing was full of natural beauty. He had never known that such a beautiful place was also a part of his Kingdom. The revelation of the message had a great effect on him. He relaxed and
forgot about those following him. After a few minutes he realized that the noise of the horses and the enemy coming was receding. They moved into some other part of the mountains and were near him.

The King was very brave. He reorganised his army and fought again. He defeated the enemy and regained his empire. When he returned to his empire after victory, he was received with much fanfare. The whole capital was rejoicing in the victory. Everyone was in a festive mood.
Flowers were being showered on King from every house, from every corner. People were dancing and singing. For a moment King said to himself," I am one of the bravest and greatest Kings. It is not easy to
defeat me. With all the reception and celebration he saw an ego emerging in him.

Suddenly the Diamond of his ring flashed in the sunlight and reminded him of the message. He opened it and read it again: "THIS TOO SHALL PASS". He became silent. His face went through a total change - from the egoist he moved to a state of utter humbleness. If this too is going to pass, it is not yours. The defeat was not yours, the victory is not yours. You are just a watcher. Everything passes by. We are
witnesses of all this. We are the perceivers. Life comes and goes. Happiness comes and goes. Sorrow comes and goes.

Now that we have read this story, let us each just sit silently and evaluate our own life. This too will pass. Think of the moments of joy and victory in our life. Think of the moment of sorrow and defeat. Are they permanent? They all come and pass away. Life just passes away. There is nothing permanent in this world. Every thing changes except the law of change. Think over it from our own perspective. We have seen all the changes, we have survived all setbacks, all defeats and all sorrows. All have passed away. The problems in the present, they too will pass away. Because nothing remains forever.

As Swami always reminds us.....

Happiness and Sorrow are the two faces of the same coin.
We are
just the witnesses of these changes.
Experience it, understand it, and enjoy the present moment - live in the 'now'....
because this too shall pass!
vrarsh
I am wondering if I should carry on with this blog. It doesnt seem to fit its purpose anymore. Wait, there are no purposes, but hmm..

Life is pretty stressful right now. Managed to hand in 2 of assignments and I still have another 3 to go. Then comes the part of your life. The one that has to do with all the other people in your life. You try to please one party, then end up getting screwed by another. Lecturers in uni are not up to any standard at all. Just because u have a post grad degree, doesn't mean you are all too good and you can go around yelling ryt?

Hhmm.. I am wondering,, will it ever get any better. I should probably diagnose myself for depression.. haha.. Just am so glad I have a whole bunch of wonderful classmates, and friends and family who care. But then one still needs to whine n complain don't they..?? :)

BTW, the line between complaining and explaining your life is so thin, ppl always get confused with the both. does it even matter anyway??\
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vrarsh
I know I haven't been updating the blog often. I seriously don't have the time. Argh I don't know. I need to increase my motivation and self discipline. I have four assignments to pass up. Let me explain.

1) Thesis proposal that we will be working on next year
current status - 1% as I have just identified the topic I might be interested in. Even then, I am not entirely sure as I cant seem to find enough back up data on the likes of this study. Tough?? yep. Tell me all about it

2) Thesis critique - To identify the mistakes in a pass year thesis and summarize it in 5 pages.
current status :-0%

3)Assessment tool review - To pick an assessment tool and explain all about it including studies on reliability, validity etc. You also need to run the test on someone and get the data on it and explain on how you calculate and measure the scores
current status - 0%

4) Task Analysis - To describe in detail how do you travel from home to class. To include in all the cues and natural consequences if those steps were not taken.
current status - 90%

Thus, so far I have only managed to complete one and even that isnt 100% done. What am I do to? I came back from class, did some research online and wanted to take a short 30 min nap but that dragged on to 2 hours!!! I am so going to fail my course... I need to buck up..

And on top of this, I am required to go back to Ipoh almost every other weekend to coach my younger sis who is sitting for SPM this year. Its not that I don't like going back or helping her out. It is just that I am at a point I dont even have time to resurface and breath and I am expected to this. When I say I have to do my assignments, I am labelled as selfish.. Tell me, is it okay to go back and coach coach my sis and fail my studies is it? huh?? argh..
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